June 6, 2011

Why don’t popes retire?

Last week I told you what Fay said about retirement.
Last week Fay told you retirement was a myth.
And last week I told you I’d explain how my recent trip to Italy convinced me that Fay was right.
Which brings us, right here right now, to this week.
So… here goes.
Retirement is a Myth; Exhibit number 1.


Ever been to St-Peter’s Cathedral? Or the Vatican Museum? Or The Sistine Chapel?
If you haven’t, please listen up, ‘cause this is important.
Put the Vatican on your bucket list.
Trust me on this one.
The Vatican (not to mention most of Rome) is something almost indescribable, a visual, an aural—a metaphysical, even—extravaganza. A treat for the senses.

But you know what came to mind as we stared—our necks sore from all that craning, especially in the Sistine chapel—at the artistry, the majesty and the splendour?
It’s this.
Popes don’t retire.
Let’s face it, anyone with a working knowledge of Catholicism will know that their top guy is ancient—he’s one old dude.
Popes don’t retire. They’re popes for life. And that’s even if said life carries them into their 80s or, as in the case of Pope Leo XIII, well into their 90s.
And so, the questions teased me. Why is that? Why don’t they retire?

And then, later, mesmerized by the kinetic energy that is Rome, something else dawned on me.
As I walked along ancient, romantic streets—along narrow alleyways and grande piazze—I witnessed even more testimony to a life of non-retirement.
Michelangelo—auteur of the Sistine Chapel, of La Pietá and of who knows how many breathtaking masterpieces—worked well into his 80s.

And that’s not all
Roman emperors—who, two thousand years prior, walked the very paths and passageways that I now walked—ruled Rome forever. The emperor Augustus (yes, the guy who the month is named after) reigned over his empire for almost 41 years, until his death at the age of 77.
Retirement, I learned, didn’t (and for many still doesn’t) exist in Rome. And because of it, men accomplished great things.

When (not) in Rome… Try Florence.
Ah, Florence—the inspirational home of the renaissance, the city of the Medici, the birthplace of  Michelangelo and Brunelleschi.
As in Rome, the giants of Firenze didn’t retire either.

Fillipo Brunelleschi, the great architect who accomplished the impossible and completed Il Duomo’s magnificent dome, died at the age of 69 and continued working until the very end.
Cosimo de’ Medici, founder of the powerful family whose finances sparked the very creation of the renaissance, continued to influence Florence commerce and culture until well into his 70s.
Retirement? No, not here either.

So what then does Fay mean when she speaks of retirement and of myths?
Well, if it hasn’t become clear to you, the principal myth about retirement is the one that says we should retire in the first place.
What I’m suggesting, in effect, is that life is not about stopping.
What I’m saying is life is about creating.
And, what I’m saying—what I learned in Italy—is there is a profound beauty of human experience to be gained when one is engaged in an endless pursuit of meaning and passion and purpose.
That’s what Michelangelo and Brunelleschi and Cosimo de’ Medici taught me; to be passionate, to be driven and to do what’s meaningful. No matter how old I become.
And what I’m now suggesting, as much to myself as to you, is to debunk the myth, to forget—to forego—retirement and to mimic Michelangelo, Brunelleschi, and the popes themselves.
Let’s not talk of retirement. That’s but a dead-end.
Let’s rather discover how we could, in our own small way, create our own Sistine Chapels, our own cathedral domes, our own lives ripe with purpose and meaning.

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May 30, 2011

It’s a myth

I was away.
In Italy.
Those who know me know I love Italy. Been there 4 times in three and a half years.
And, each time I go, I go for a little bit longer.

“So what?” You might wonder.
So this.

In my book, the protagonist, Charles, is told by his mentor, Fay, that retirement is a myth. Charles disagrees, vehemently, with Fay’s opinion.  Undaunted, Fay builds a convincing case, citing example after example, each one–ever so forcefully–shoring up her position. All of which leaves our poor Charles defeated, unsure and wondering whether Fay is, perhaps, right after all.

Now here’s the thing.
While in Italy, what I witnessed there–amongst the tourists and the residents, the vineyards and the ruins–made me realize, all the more, that our fictional Fay was, in fact, unto something.
With your permission, I’d like to share, over the coming weeks, two or three of those observations.
OK?
Great.
Well, I’ll see you next week then.

Oh, one other thing.
Before I forget, there’s something I need to get off my chest.
People, people, people; in your travels, why do you weigh yourself down with so much baggage?
During our two weeks in Italy, we boarded planes, trains, coaches, taxis, metros, hop-on/hop-off buses, and one rent-a-car. We, also, walked untold miles (and even more kilometres!).
Thankfully, the fact that we each had a carry-on suitcase (and one small tote bag between the two of us) made it  effortless to move through the crowds-unlike those countless folk that I saw struggling with two (or three) monster suitcases, all topped off with tote bags, camera bags and knapsacks.
Now if you’re thinking, “I don’t know how to travel light,” try this. Visit www.onebag.com and see how you too can shed all that excess luggage.

Because, you know, when I see people travelling with so much baggage, I can’t help but wonder…
What kind of other baggage are they dragging along in their daily lives?

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July 11, 2010

No finish line

It’s Monday; can’t wait for Friday.
It’s 9:00 AM; can’t wait for 5.
It’s May; we want July.
September; bring on December.

Why the rush? Why treat life like a race—like a series of ever-alluring finish lines?
What’s wrong with now?

Nowhere is this ceaseless eagerness for the finish line more prevalent than in our careers.
We’re eager for promotion; anxious for vacation.
We anticipate a raise; almost demand a break.
And  the most wistful wish for the finish line is shown by those anticipating retirement.

People, I have a suggestion;
Work so it feels like play
Play at something every day
Enjoy each day you’re alive
And live like there’s no finish line.

Because, the only  true finish line that looms
Is the one that none is eager for.

Ideas? Suggestions? Questions? Please leave a comment.

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March 30, 2010

Why I do it



It happens now and then.

People write to ask, “Why bother? Why bring up all this stuff?” Or to suggest, “You’re swimming against the current, mate.”

All of which, I suppose, is fair game.

All of which, I suppose, gives me the opportunity to suggest that whether you jump out of bed—eager to start the day (which is one of my informal barometers of success, by the way, in case you’re interested).

Or whether you drag yourself out of bed, ruing another long, dreary, mundane day.

Whether it’s one or the other. I’ve got some ideas, some suggestions. Some theories.

That’s why I’m doing this.

Oh, and one other reason.

A reader sent me this note about the book.

All of which means, I suppose, getting just one note like that makes it—for me—all worthwhile.

Oh, notice that last part? The one that suggests talking about it?

That’s why, I suppose, I’m doing those workshops I described elsewhere on this blog.


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